Choose the right victim.
Appear to be an object of desire----create triangles.
Create a false sense of security.
Confuse desire and reality----the perfect illusion.
Disarm through strategic weakness and vulnerability.
Effect a regression.
Stir up the transgressive and taboo.
Mix pleasure with pain.
Give them space to fall----the pursuer is pursued.
Use physical lures.
Beware of the After Effects.